埋怨-Complaint
Complaint
Complaint is common in life. There are always things not satisfactory to people. It is easy to criticize and find fault with others. The nagging person is always complaining. He complains about his leader, his colleagues and even his wife. His grievnnee and grumbling makes both himself and others unhappy. Complaint mends no holes. Instead it results ha hostility between beth the giver and the receiver of the complaint.
The man who is a failure is loud of picking holes in others. A man of success is always praising others for their merits, for he sees only the strong points of others and learns from their strong points to enlarge his own ego.
The man who complains only sees the weak points of others and he thinks that he himself is perfect. So he learns little or nothing from others, and, by and by. he loses his own superiority.
What we should do is the opposite of complaint-- praise. An ounce of praise is worth a pound of criticism. A man of good wishes always respects others and appreciates their work and efforts. He congratulates others on their achievements and succeoses. He feels happy about them as it they were his own. He speaks highly of them. In return, he himself is respected and appreciated.
So, let us complain less and praise more, in order to make our world full of good wishes.
埋怨
埋怨在生活中很常见。人们总有不满意的事情，批评别人，找茬儿是容易的事。挑剔的人总在埋怨领导、同事、甚至自己的妻子，使自己和别人都不高兴。埋怨毫无益处，只是给双方带来敌意。
失败者总是挑别人的刺，而成功者总是表扬别人的优点。他看到别人的长处，学习别人的长处，增强自己的能力。
爱埋怨的人只看别人的缺点，只有自己最完美。因此，从别人那里学不到什么，渐渐地失去自己的优势。
我们应该做的是埋怨的反面——表扬。一丁点表扬胜过许多批评的话语。心地善良的人尊敬、欣赏别人的辛苦工作，他为别人的成就和成功表示祝贺，感到高兴，就像自己的成就一样，给以高度评价。与此同时，他也得到别人的尊重和欣赏。
让我们少埋怨多表扬，让世界充满良好的愿望。
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